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Dear Hip-Hop Therapist:
First I want to say thank you for being a good role model for the Hip-Hop Generation. We
need more Hip-Hoppas like you. I wanted to ask you about a guy I have been dating. We have
been dating off and on for 3 years. We have always been free to see other people, but now I
am ready for a commitment and he is not. I am at the point where I want to settle down. He
states that he cares deeply about me, but he prefers that we keep things the way they are now.
I have always known that he has seen other women, but now I am aware that he is seeing
another woman and that it may be serious. I have always treated him as if he was a boyfriend
(special privileges, gifts, meeting the family, etc.), and he has done the same. I feel like I am
in a competition with this other woman because I am also aware that she had met his family
and act as if they were a couple. I love him so much, and I don't want to give up on us. We act
like more than friends. Why won't he commit to me?
Tanya, age 31
Louisville, KY
First I want to say thank you for being a good role model for the Hip-Hop Generation. We
need more Hip-Hoppas like you. I wanted to ask you about a guy I have been dating. We have
been dating off and on for 3 years. We have always been free to see other people, but now I
am ready for a commitment and he is not. I am at the point where I want to settle down. He
states that he cares deeply about me, but he prefers that we keep things the way they are now.
I have always known that he has seen other women, but now I am aware that he is seeing
another woman and that it may be serious. I have always treated him as if he was a boyfriend
(special privileges, gifts, meeting the family, etc.), and he has done the same. I feel like I am
in a competition with this other woman because I am also aware that she had met his family
and act as if they were a couple. I love him so much, and I don't want to give up on us. We act
like more than friends. Why won't he commit to me?
Tanya, age 31
Louisville, KY
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Hey,
I have this friend who think and acts like she is better than everyone else. She gets on my
nerves so bad that I do not know why I am even her friend. Her attitude is really starting to
take a toll on me. She puts me and ll of our other friends down. She also speaks to us like we
are less than her. We only have fun we hang out at the clubs. She is hilarious after I have
had a couple of drinks. But when I am sober I am reminded of how much of a bitch she is and
how I practically can't stand her. Please help me. Should I stay her friend or should I kick
her to the curb?
Kriss, age 26
Miami, FL
I have this friend who think and acts like she is better than everyone else. She gets on my
nerves so bad that I do not know why I am even her friend. Her attitude is really starting to
take a toll on me. She puts me and ll of our other friends down. She also speaks to us like we
are less than her. We only have fun we hang out at the clubs. She is hilarious after I have
had a couple of drinks. But when I am sober I am reminded of how much of a bitch she is and
how I practically can't stand her. Please help me. Should I stay her friend or should I kick
her to the curb?
Kriss, age 26
Miami, FL
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Dear Hip Hop Therapist (2nd response)
Well that was nice. As I expected, a response that says a whole lot about nothing. There wasn't
any feelings of hate towards Hippie Hoppie music in my email to you, I don't hate something I
feel pity for or even laugh at. I want to help you thus I offered you my advice. Is this the kind
of blanket response you give all your readers who send you email you don't like? Actually
looking from the outside towards your culture (I currently live overseas) has done wonders for
me. I can see what it is clearly and what it is doing to my country and its youth. Your email
only goes to prove what a lot of people say about ghetto types, that is they are incapable of deep
thought and reasoning, you babble on and try to use intellect but end up not making any sense.
How about YOU taking the road less traveled, the one that requires self discipline and hard
work instead of blaming the system. How about YOU creating a culture and music that is an
art form instead of a disgrace. Then maybe America will once again be a country that is
capable of producing music that is worth listening to.
Well that was nice. As I expected, a response that says a whole lot about nothing. There wasn't
any feelings of hate towards Hippie Hoppie music in my email to you, I don't hate something I
feel pity for or even laugh at. I want to help you thus I offered you my advice. Is this the kind
of blanket response you give all your readers who send you email you don't like? Actually
looking from the outside towards your culture (I currently live overseas) has done wonders for
me. I can see what it is clearly and what it is doing to my country and its youth. Your email
only goes to prove what a lot of people say about ghetto types, that is they are incapable of deep
thought and reasoning, you babble on and try to use intellect but end up not making any sense.
How about YOU taking the road less traveled, the one that requires self discipline and hard
work instead of blaming the system. How about YOU creating a culture and music that is an
art form instead of a disgrace. Then maybe America will once again be a country that is
capable of producing music that is worth listening to.
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Dear The Hip Hopper Therapist,
Instead of praising hip hop, you should be admitting and teaching others of your kind the dangers of
the social disease known as hip hop. What a mess our American society has become. We have hip
hop now for main stream culture. I googled southern gangsta rap and I found every lyric or song
title to contain references like "nine to ya dome" or fuck this or that, just a bunch of ridiculous
jumble. Your promoting this as art? Why? Then we have this religion called the 5 percenters. Why
cant you uplift your race? Ive lived among Asians, living in high risers and old public houses but
they dont destroy it and act like some barbarian living in a tribe. What about hurricane Katrina? You
cant blame that on Whites because the Asians during the typhoon in Indonesia didnt act like that. you
only have your own kind to blame. You dont have the ability to uplift your race, but you show us all,
the whole world your ability to destroy it and everything around it. Hip hop is nothing but a by
product of the social diseases and dysfunctionality of inner city youth. Unless you address this
issue, get your heads out of your asses, and stop with the self destruction, you will always be what
you are now, the lowest class in America. That's right, these Mexicans who have different values
than you are overtaking you because simply put, its you make it easy for them! You only have
yourselves to blame. Once the white man is a minority, your going to be hurting because he, the
White man, who pitied you and allowed themselves to be brainwashed by academia and other retards
that all the black mans problems were white related. Well, these other(immigrant) people aren't going
to be so nice to you. They arent bringing the Anglo Saxxon values with them. This should be
interesting indeed.
Instead of praising hip hop, you should be admitting and teaching others of your kind the dangers of
the social disease known as hip hop. What a mess our American society has become. We have hip
hop now for main stream culture. I googled southern gangsta rap and I found every lyric or song
title to contain references like "nine to ya dome" or fuck this or that, just a bunch of ridiculous
jumble. Your promoting this as art? Why? Then we have this religion called the 5 percenters. Why
cant you uplift your race? Ive lived among Asians, living in high risers and old public houses but
they dont destroy it and act like some barbarian living in a tribe. What about hurricane Katrina? You
cant blame that on Whites because the Asians during the typhoon in Indonesia didnt act like that. you
only have your own kind to blame. You dont have the ability to uplift your race, but you show us all,
the whole world your ability to destroy it and everything around it. Hip hop is nothing but a by
product of the social diseases and dysfunctionality of inner city youth. Unless you address this
issue, get your heads out of your asses, and stop with the self destruction, you will always be what
you are now, the lowest class in America. That's right, these Mexicans who have different values
than you are overtaking you because simply put, its you make it easy for them! You only have
yourselves to blame. Once the white man is a minority, your going to be hurting because he, the
White man, who pitied you and allowed themselves to be brainwashed by academia and other retards
that all the black mans problems were white related. Well, these other(immigrant) people aren't going
to be so nice to you. They arent bringing the Anglo Saxxon values with them. This should be
interesting indeed.
Dear Hip-Hop Therapist ™,
Well, I have been struggling with how to be myself and be mature. It's like part of me wants to still be
this ghetto queen, and the other wants to have the life that I currently have (i.e. wife, mother, and
career, home). What does one do? The Hip Hop Diva that this reminds me of is MARY J. Blige. She
struggled through many tribulations trying to find herself as a woman, diva, ghetto queen, and now a
mature married woman. What insight do you have….?
Neenah, Age 30, Chicago, IL
Well, I have been struggling with how to be myself and be mature. It's like part of me wants to still be
this ghetto queen, and the other wants to have the life that I currently have (i.e. wife, mother, and
career, home). What does one do? The Hip Hop Diva that this reminds me of is MARY J. Blige. She
struggled through many tribulations trying to find herself as a woman, diva, ghetto queen, and now a
mature married woman. What insight do you have….?
Neenah, Age 30, Chicago, IL
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